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APPROACHING HER-Timothy and Veronica

Timothy and Veronica grew up together, they went to school together and were very good friends. As they grew older Tim realized that he was romantically in love with Veronica and assumed that Veronica knew how he felt, he never told her  

He did everything a man does for his lover for Veronica, he was always the first to call her on her birthday, he bought her gifts on her birthdays, Valentine’s day, on every occasion that gifts are exchanged and even when gifts are not exchanged

He took her out on dates; they went to the movies, games together and with friends. They were always paired together by their friends. She was the first person he talks to about things that where bothering him and decisions that he wants to take. They were closer than some married couples

Veronica was in love with Timothy as well, but she is the kind that believes that a man has to make the first move to initiate a relationship. She was secretly praying for Timothy to say the word but Tim never said anything, because he assumed they were already dating. Veronica’s clock was ticking, she wanted to get married but she was turning down all the men that were coming because she was waiting for Timothy to say the word

When she was twenty nine, she was sent abroad by the company she works in for a six months training. Whilst there she was still in touch with Tim, exchanging gifts with him, communicating with him daily. She was still expecting him to say the word but he never did. Then she met another man Gabe at a mall, she liked him a lot but she was not in love with him

He asked her out for a date. A month after their first date he popped the question that Veronica has been waiting for Tim to ask for some time “Will you marry me?”

Veronica was surprised but she asked him to give sometime to think. She was confused because here is Timothy, whom she loves and has known all her life but he has never told her that he loves her or told her that he wanted more than friendship from her. And, here is Gabe that she likes very much and has known for only a short time is asking her for marriage. “What should do

She asked herself, she has to get married and she can no longer wait for Tim because she does not know how he feels about her. So she said yes to Gabe and they got married after two months.

When Tim heard about the marriage, he was very angry and he called her all sorts of names. But, she told him that he never told her how he felt

Now....what is the moral to this story? The moral is..... If you love a woman let her know immediately...Act fast



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