APPROACHING HER part2

Women sense and are turned off by insecurity, so make sure you look and act confident. Groom, dress, move, and pursue like a man who is secure with women and with himself. Be yourself don’t fake it

Start by first talking and later making friends with the person you think is special. Most people don't like to jump straight into a relationship, especially girls. Find a reason to talk to the person. Make sure that they want to talk to you. Just talk about something that keeps the conversation going.

Be yourself and don't lie just to get to a special person's heart. If they find out later and you're in the middle of a deep relationship or maybe a time when you really need that person, they will leave for good. Let the person know that you like them. Beyond the cheesy sending a note through a friend, talk to them about something you both have in common

If you are meeting the woman for the first time strike a conversation with her and let her know that you admire her and would want to know her better, introduce yourself and ask her for her name and number, if she is interested in you she would ask for your number, if she doesn’t don’t despair she might be the shy type or the type that believes it is a man’s duty to do the chasing

Tell her that you would call her but don’t tell when. Make sure you call her as promised her and ask her for a date. If after the first date two dates what you expected was not what you got or you find out she is not the kind of woman you would want to have a permanent relationship with. Let her know that you could just be friends or break it off don’t toy with her feelings. Because if you go on a date with a woman more than twice, she concludes that you are having a permanent relationship with her

If you have known her for long, maybe you have been friends for sometime and you just realize that you want more than friendship, let her know the level you want your friendship to get to. Don’t nurse your feelings for her in secret or assume that she wants the same thing. She might be romantically involved with somebody already or she might not want more than friendship with you

Probably she wants you too but does not want to cross the boundary of friendship. Talk with her, tell her how you feel. Act fast before someone beats you to it. Don’t be like these two…