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WOOING HER- Dates


Going out on dates is actually a must in every relationship, whether you have been married for fifty years or just starting. Our focus is really on the man that has just met a woman he is interested in and a man that has just indicated his interest in a woman he has known for some time. Though, a married man can still use any or all of these ideas to woo his wife because the wooing never really stops

When planning a date, men often think that there are certain things that they should and should not do. Women are individuals, though, and what turns one woman on may be very off-putting and aversive to another. By following a few simple guidelines, you can make sure that the wooing goes smoothly and happily for both of you

A word of warning; if you are on a budget, decide on how much you want to spend and stick to it. Decide on an affordable activity and location, decide on affordable place to dine out or you can as well have  a picnic in the middle of your living room, with a nice bottle of wine, candles and the music of your choice can even do the trick if you play the game well

Take her on a planned date, to dinner at a place where she has mentioned that she likes or on a surprise date to a good place you have tried and you think she would like. You can invite her over to your place for dinner or Sunday brunch; make it special by preparing something you think she would like or something she has mentioned that she likes

Take her to watch movies, if she likes movies. If she likes sports you can go and watch a sporting event together .Take her to the Olympics, just kidding; you can go on a drive together to a predetermined spot. Serenade her sometimes by singing a love song outside her window. Go to a coffee house and read poetry to each other

Call your local radio station and make a request for her favorite song or any love song to be played and make sure she is listening, by first sending a text message to her asking her to listen to the particular radio station at the said time

Enjoy the outdoors; picnic in your local park or at your local beach; host a candlelight dinner in your own backyard, patio or terrace, use the stars as your backdrop and candles to create intimacy. You can watch the sun go down or the moon come up together. You can also visit the Museum or National Park together

It is exciting to try new things, but don't go too far outside of either of your comfort zones.  It doesn't really matter how much money you spend, or how gallant you are. In the end, it's a man's sensitivity and compatibility which really impresses a woman


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