Never
compromise your morals. If the person you are interested in is not interested
in you, then you should move on. Some people are very polite and you may not
realize immediately that they aren't interested. But, given time, it should
become apparent. In the meantime, take it slow, and even if you are head over
heels, don't reveal this right away, at least
until you are sure they are genuinely
interested in you, too, or they could use your attraction to their benefit
Usually
it is best to reveal one's feelings step by step, not much more nor much less
than the other has revealed. However, people have very different ways for
showing that they are or are not interested, so do not break up, or step it up,
without talking things through as to where you're both headed. If you feel like
you need time to decide, do not hesitate to talk
Never
be forceful. If you ever pressure her to do something she doesn't feel
comfortable doing, she won't be shy to say goodbye. Forcing her to do what she
doesn’t want to do is rude. Try to continue doing your normal routine, with
them in mind, rather than changing your whole life around them. Hopefully they
will want to have a relationship with YOU, not a clone of themselves or a tag
along
The
most important thing in dating is to be conscious of your date's feelings and
reactions. If she's a high-powered lawyer or a free-thinking intellectual, she
may feel that your chivalry is an attempt to deprive her of her independence.
However, if she's pleased at your holding the door for her, keep up the
gallantry
A lot of guys choose women who are
"arm candy" -- good-looking trophy girlfriends who bolster their
status among other men or counteract their own insecurities. That's all well
and good, but if you find a woman who makes you happy, regardless of looks, age
or social status -- or what any other guy thinks -- then you have definitely
won at the mating game